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One of These Cosmo-Approved Perfumes Is the Perfect Finishing Touch on Your Date Night Look

A spritz of one of these is 2026's equivalent to batting your eyes.

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Going on dates is kind of in my DNA as a Cosmo editor. How else would I possibly know everything about date night makeup, questions to ask on a first date, and the best date night spots in every city of America? I rest my case. But the one soapbox I will stand tall on is that the finishing touch of your entire date night ensemble needs to be a spritz of perfume. And not just any perfume. The airy, office-appropriate, clean perfume you wear at work is pretty, but not sexy, you know?

Obviously, the key to the right first-date perfume is something that makes you feel confident and empowered. There's no exact science. But for me, it was entirely dependent on how I wanted to feel sitting next to this new person, leading me to a slew of warm, cozy, soft scents. But for others, the vibe might be spicy and sexy perfume. Maybe it's fruity and juicy. It's all personal preference, which is why I polled a handful of Cosmo staffers on their go-to first-date perfume.

"It's all in the name, here. A scent worthy of wearing out with your crush, Libre Berry Crush is chock-full of a juicy, sticky raspberry note. I cannot stop smelling myself all day when I wear this, and I fully believe it would have the same effect on a date."—BETH GILLETTE, BEAUTY EDITOR

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Scent familyFruity floral

“The ad for this fragrance was all over my Netflix (yes, I pay for the cheapest option), and I instantly was drawn to the carefree, yet sophisticated vibes. The scent mirrors the campaign completely: it’s grown-up smelling but still playful and light and the floral notes feel modern and fresh.”—LAUREN BALSAMO, BEAUTY DIRECTOR

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Key notesStrawberry, vanilla, gardenia, brown sugar
Scent familyFruity and sweet
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"A solid perfume is always going to be a great pick to keep in your bag and covertly reapply under the table while your date heads to the bathroom. And these new teeny ones from Sol De Janeiro are the cutest thing I've ever seen. The jelly, alcohol-free formula goes on completely clear and not sticky at all, imparting the iconic Cheirosa '40 fragrance—a jasmine, vanilla, and Black Amber plum scent that's sexy yet understated."—BG

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Key notesBlack Amber plum, creme de cassis, jasmine blooms, Brazillian orchid, vanilla woods, warm musk
Scent familyGourmand
Alto Astral Eau de Parfum

Pros

  • Soft and fresh
  • Has great longevity (seven to eight hours)

Cons

  • More of a skin scent, so won't fill the room if that's what you're going for

"On a first date with someone I was desperate to make a good impression on, I doused myself in this juice from Byredo. It was the perfect mix of sweet, fresh, and woodsy. There's depth from sandalwood and a salted amber note, but milky sweetness from musk and coconut water. But it's all grounded by aldehydes, making you smell clean and soft. It eminates a really beautiful aroma that just gives off this positive vibe. In fact, when I went in for a hug at the end of the date, they said I smelled good. Win."—BETH GILLETTE, BEAUTY EDITOR

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Key notesAldehydes, coconut water, jasmine, musk, sandalwood, cashmere wood, salted amber
Scent familyWoodsy and fresh
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Donna Born in Roma Eau de Parfum

Pros

  • Strong scent with major projection and longevity
  • Great to wear inside a crowded bar or on a dance floor

Cons

  • Some might find it a bit too "loud"

"Donna Born in Roma is cute and flirty in a very effortless way which makes it a lot of fun to wear out. Sugar and spice and everything nice is a common recipe for a successful fragrance, and this one really takes that and runs with it. The scent is richer, more grounded, and wood-forward than my vintage fave, which feels especially fitting as a new step in my personal fragrance evolution. But overall, somehow, it reminds me of a simpler time when I was a little more carefree, sweet, and friendly. Maybe Donna Born in Roma can pick up the slack when I falter in that department."—SAM NEIBERT, CONTRIBUTING BEAUTY WRITER

READ OUR FULL VALENTINO DONNA BORN IN ROMA REVIEW HERE

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Key notesBlack currant, jasmine, bourbon vanilla
Scent familySweet floral
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Best Vanilla Perfume to Wear On A First Date

LoveShackFancy Secret Crush Eau de Parfum

Secret Crush Eau de Parfum

Pros

  • Sweet, but in a rich way, not a cloying way
  • Lasts all day, especially if you spritz on clothes

Cons

  • Packaging is a bit bulky

"The fragrance name has vanilla in it, so I knew the note would be a main character. But to my surprise, it wasn't the overly-sweet or cloying vanilla that I find overpowering. It's more elevated and unique thanks to its supporting notes. Chantilly adds a creamy richness, while sandalwood, ambrox, and musk help balance out the sweetness."—JASMINE HYMAN, ASSISTANT BEAUTY EDITOR

READ OUR FULL LOVESHACKFANCY SECRET CRUSH REVIEW HERE

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Key notesVanilla, champagne, chantilly, sandalwood, coconut milk, white musk, ambrox
Scent familyGourmand
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Best Subtle Perfume

Chanel Chance Eau de Parfum

Chance Eau de Parfum

Pros

  • Recognizable and likeable scent
  • Smells sophisticated, per testers

Cons

  • Patchouli note can be a bit overpowering

"Usually, my move is to smell both sweet and expensive at the same time. For that, I love Chance by Chanel. It has notes of vanilla, which I read somewhere once is extra inviting to people so I always kinda try to keep that in mind."—VERONICA LOPEZ, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS EDITOR

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Key notesPatchouli, vanilla, pink pepper, jasmine, iris, musk
Scent familyMusky and floral
Power Self Extrait de Parfum

Pros

  • Extrait, so it has major projection and the longest lasting power of anything else we've tested

Cons

  • Some might find the scent a bit too mature

"I sniffed this for the first time about a month ago, and I have never fell in love with a fragrance so quickly. It's complex yet wearable—boasting a unique and magnetic combination of musky, spicy, and juicy. If you like a sweet and floral scent that also feels elevated and sexy, do yourself a favor and add this extrait to your shelf. You only need one spray of the transformative formula to rack in the compliments all night long."—JASMINE HYMAN, ASSISTANT BEAUTY EDITOR

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Key notesOsmanthus, white rose, magnolia, black pepper, ambrox, musk, cedarwood
Scent familyFloral and musky
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Celestial Object Eau de Parfum

Pros

  • Fantastic skin scent that you get whiffs of whenever you're close to someone
  • Smells unique yet familiar

Cons

  • Doesn't last as long as some of the other scents we've tested

"Celestial Object is so calming: it makes me feel like I just slipped into a really chic pajama set to rewatch my favorite comfort shows in bed. The almond and rice paper combo is truly ethereal, like you're walking through a cloud of powdered sugar at a French patisserie. Then, the richer notes of labdanum and tonka bean come through. It's soft but persistent—by hour three, you have to lean close to smell it, but it lingers for a long time."—LAUREN GRUBER, ASSOCIATE COMMERCE EDITOR

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Key notesAlmond, rice paper, incense, tonka bean, labdanum
Scent familyGourmand
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Best Long-Lasting Perfume for A First Date

Creed Queen of Silk Fragrance

Queen of Silk Fragrance

Pros

  • Could spray on early in the morning and still get whiffs of it on your skin late at night

Cons

  • Very expensive (but you likely will never have to reapply throughout the day)

"OK, here’s the thing about first dates…you want them to be unforgettable without knocking someone over with a perfume cloud. I’m married, so I haven’t gone a first day in ages! BUT I can honestly say that when I’m trying to re-impress my hubby and remind him that his wife is an absolute babe, I always pull-out Creed’s Queen of Silk. It’s a floral-musk scent that is romantic but at the same time dangerously sexy. It’s classic but not in a stuffy cliché way. Also, it lasts all night long--just like the best conversations and relationships. The notes really do all the heavy lifting. Magnolia and saffron bring that flirty sparkle, then tuberose and passionfruit keep things playful and sultry. By the time the vanilla and oud roll in, it’s giving “I’m unforgettable”--and trust me, even after 14 years of marriage, my husband is still leaning in closer and planning our next date."—JULEE WILSON, BEAUTY EDITOR-AT-LARGE

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Key notesOsmanthus, magnolia, saffron, tuberose, passion fruit, patchouli, Madagascar vanilla, incense, myrhh, edarwood, musk
Scent familyFloral and amber
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Best Portable Perfume for A First Date

CYKLAR Sex Musk Perfume Oil Roll-On

Sex Musk Perfume Oil Roll-On

Pros

  • Cosmo Holy Grail Beauty Award winner
  • Easy to chuck in your bag and reapply

Cons

  • Doesn't have the same projection as a spray perfume

“This ain’t your average musk—it’s bold, sensual, and unapologetically sexy. One dab and you’re walking confidence, dripping allure. It’s giving main character energy, late-night whispers, and skin that lingers in memory.” —JW

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Key notesRose, jasmine, orris, tonka bean, vanilla, patchouli, amber, musk
Scent familySpicy and musky

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Beth Gillette is the beauty editor at Cosmopolitan with seven years of experience researching, writing, and editing fragrance stories that range from Chanel perfumes to 2025 perfume trends.

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Beth Gillette is the beauty editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers skincare, makeup, hair, nails, and more across digital and print. She can generally be found in bright eyeshadow furiously typing her latest feature or hemming and hawing about a new product you "have to try." Prior to Cosmopolitan, she wrote and edited beauty content as an Editor at The Everygirl for four years. Follow her on Instagram for makeup selfies and a new hair 'do every few months. 

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